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Monday, 1 December 2025

The Waiting Game

 

One of our family’s catchphrases is, ‘You’re either a Steenbock or a Morrison.’ Steenbock is my maiden name, and if you are a Steenbock, you will always choose to be early, wherever you are going. If you are a Morrison, you will try to squeeze in one more thing before leaving for the appointment, airport, train station, whatever.

It has led to disagreements in the past. Now Don knows, it’s easier to just go along with the Steenbock. So he took Mhairi to the train station this morning, at least a good twenty minutes earlier than he would have chosen to leave for it himself…

Advent. Season of waiting. Generally, nobody likes to wait; to be ‘kept waiting’ is impolite, rude. But in Advent, God himself keeps us waiting, a deliberate period of waiting to allow time for reflection, for drawing near, for being still.  Advent is a time of settling in to the wait to commemorate Jesus’ entrance into the world as one of us.

As a mother of four, I have spent a good amount of time waiting. Routine medical appointments, sports, clubs, social visits, whatever. As the daughter of a centenarian, I spend a few hours every year in airports, waiting. I have a lot of experience waiting, but it can still be a challenge, especially when awaiting a hoped-for outcome.

We are all in heaven’s waiting room, but some of us are closer to the door than others. I think of my dear Mom, having lost so much independence, spending most of her days dozing, awaiting her Saviour’s voice calling her on. She waits in hope, in love, and, I pray, in peace.

Be still and know that I am God. May we all learn the art of waiting. May our Advent season be sanctified by the promise and hope of Immanuel, God with us.